A Particularly Angry Day

11:28am *************
Dear Rick, I am still attempting to get the Findings and Order from April filed with DCSS so that they can enforce the support that has been ordered. My attorney contacted Bret Wishart's office last week and he is unable to respond until after the holiday weekend. You are, of course, welcome to contribute to our children's support at any time. Obviously, you've learned that it is much easier and there are no consequences (or at least delayed consequences) to doing nothing. Dad of the Year. Thank you, Amber

1:31pm *************
I called the dcss and they said to pay them not you. The only court order that was made in April was only for time share of children not support. So ill pay them. Rick

2:05pm *************
Dear Rick, We both know support was ordered in April. DCSS just can't enforce it yet. You've already admitted that you currently owe over $10,000. Since you CAN'T pay it to them, you should be paying me directly in order to take care of your financial responsibility. Convenient excuses and loopholes will only delay the inevitable. In the meantime, you're NOT EVEN TRYING to contribute to the support of our children. Your new family, however, is doing just fine. Having visits with your kids makes you one up on your own Father, it doesn't make you a decent Dad. Guess Norah will get 100% while Hattie, Jason, Derek, Breanna, Jane and Parker will settle for splitting 30%. Oh wait, Parker has been settling for 0%. Thank you, Amber

1:56pm *************
The children have everything they need. It's you who wants the $ talk to dcss and figureit out. If you asked the kids where they want to live they want to be here. Here is there home with all there things. Not at grandma's house and a storage unit. If you would have sold all that stuff and saved the cost of the unit you could move out. How's working for MK your step dad and selling your food stamps. Food and help from the church I'm sure your bf likes all the stuff you get him. In all the years of working I barely spent $600 on gas. I'm not saying this to be mean I'm just saying this is what you created. I have no problem communicating with you as long as you leave out your negative comments or opinions. They don't help us or the children. I don't need therapy or a class to be polite or work together about the kids. So please leave out you putdowns or negative judgements they don't help the kids. One last thing I don't get into your business when the kids are with you but letting your boyfriend take our daughter to the movies is "inappropriate" you should know considering your history. Be more wise and protect your children better. Thanks, Rick

2:24pm *************
The children have what my parents provide. If they want to live there, go ahead and try for custody. I'm sure your decision to move 60 miles away and not pay support will help tons. Their "child support" is paying for what they have there. You have no idea what happens here, so don't bother with YOUR judgements. The kids do not want to live with you and your pretend wife. This is now what you've created. All of it. I tried to make it right. I did and am still doing everything I can. Ignoring church leaders because you "know better" certainly proves that you are in the right! Go, Follow the Spirit to the temple with her. I know what I've done and am doing right and wrong. You've destroyed this family that ABSOLUTELY COULD HAVE BEEN REPAIRED. At least it could have gone differently. But YOU DID EXACTLY WHAT I DID AND TOOK IT EVEN FURTHER!! The kids call Brian my boyfriend because it helps them make sense of your relationship with Carolyn. Simple as that. Anything else is none of your business (to use your favorite phrase.) As long as you insist on being an asshole, things will stay the same. You do need therapy. Alone and with me. For the sake of the kids... Ask Bret why we aren't divorced yet. I signed your "Settlement" a month ago. Tick-tock, still waiting. Doesn't he know you have to make your relationship "okay in the eyes of God"... by getting a quickie marriage? (WOW. Doesn't that sound familiar?) Thank you, Amber

3:02pm *************
Dcss can't enforce payment until they recieve the court order. To be turned in by you since you haven't turned it in to them I tried and found out I could have sent them the money and should send it to them so from now on they will get the $ as for my new family they pay their way Norah's mother and grandparents help out any way th ey can and that is none of your business what goes on in this house does not concern you I figured out how to live off of what is left over after I send to dcss quit begging for money I refuse to pay you anything. Dcss will take care of it. I will not discuss this any more.

3:44pm *************
Dear Rick, I love how you change the subject whenever your lies no longer make sense. You're a deadbeat. Your kids will always adore you, and seek your approval, since you've replaced them already. But as adults they will see you for what you are. Every choice you've made is in your interest and hurts them. Have a nice life. Enjoy your "eternity". Thank you, Amber